One of the hardest things to do is to pick up the pieces and move on. A lot of people I know including myself as well, find themselves asking why they’re stuck? Why can’t they just move on? The answer is simple. It’s because you truly don’t want to. Knowing what you have to do and wanting to actually do it are two completely different things. We try to rationalize our choices and why it’s not possible but the fact is, it all comes down to “want”. I have to pass this class but I want to stay home and sleep. I have to save up for rent but I want a new wardrobe. I have to get over this guy but I want to hang out with him. We have the answers to our problems but refuse to use them because we simply don’t want to let go. Even when its staring you down, smack right in front of you and still, nothing.

The truth is, you’ll stop being stuck the minute you decide to do something about it. It may not be the easiest thing in the world and yes, it probably will suck majorly. But staying the exact same place you are with no progress is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Change isn’t always easy or fun or even great at times, but it is necessary.